2-do you feel you had a choice in the matter of coming to america

Sure I had a choice... I could have just stayed and not left Korea... I really didn't feel like going. However... my entire family was leaving and it would've been difficult to live by myself Korea since I was only 22. I would have had to sustain myself, visit my family and I would've generally felt very lonely I went back and forth on the issue however even if I had my disagreements with my family and we sometimes fought I eventually decided it was worth it so I left my friends and... everything else in Korea as well such as... my memories, my friends, all my playgrounds, nightclubs, everything I threw away all of those things and I pretty much had to come to America. Of course, I was worried for my future and I was scared although I had a basic understanding of English, I couldn't speak it very well so I was scared. But since my family was going, it's not like I could just rent a room by myself and stay in Korea. So I said "Okay, let's go". I couldn't help but come.