Look Us in the Eye, Part 1
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Morris County NOW presents
NEW DIRECTIONS FOR WOMEN
LOOK US IN THE EYE
Welcome to New Directions for Women.
A programme of the Morris County New Jersey Chapter
of the National Organization for Women.
Our programme today, is a departure from our usual interview
format. We have an interesting video called
[Rebecca Lubetking, Morris County NOW, NJ] "Look Us In the Eye"
produced by the Old Women's Project
and that's what they want to be called. While
we've tried to reflect in our programmes the many faces of women,
in all their diversity, we along
with other media may have paid less attention
to people of advanced age.
This show gives us a fresh perspective.
We will see the strength, energy
and purpose of a group of old women,
and how they have been able to make a difference.
I hope you enjoy their story.
"I think it is important to recognize the difference between aging, which is a
physiological process, & ageism, which is a form of oppression" Barbara McDonald, writer/activist
The Yale Women's Alliance protests Mory's, a male-only pub used for meetings & faculty recruitment, 1969
FREE OUR SISTERS, FREE OURSELVES
Demonstration in support of the Black Panther Women on trial, 1969
March for Reproductive Rights, Washington DC, 1971
SISTER, feminist publication, 1971-1976
Action for 12 black women murdered in Boston, 1979
The National March in Washington for Lesbian & Gay Rights - Washington DC, 1979
Nuclear Free World Protest, The Pentagon, 1980
Nevada test site, 1989
- We've been activists all along in our whole lives. [San Diego, CA, 2004]
So that hasn't changed at all. What has changed is
coming from the viewpoint of being old women.
LOOK US IN THE EYE, a film by Jennifer Abod
Old women were been segregated in so many ways.
[Cynthia Rich, writer/ activist] Either we were a single block of issues,
social security, medical care,
prescription drugs, which are incredibly important
survival issues for all women,
but that's not ALL of who we are!
Now, we are also involved in all issues of
social justice. Personally involved.
- Which was part of the reason that we actually formed
our group. Was to do that kind of
[Janice Keaffaber, writer/ artist/ activist] outreach. Show up! At
the women's prisoners protests and say "hey!", you know,
"we're here to represent all the old women who are in prison" and everybody went
"Oh, my God! I never thought about that!"
Not only that. Then we get to show our giant puppet and they can't
[Mannie Garza, writer/ editor/ activist] miss us, so it's like "oooh!"
- They can't make us invisible anyway. [laughs] Yeah!
We used to invisible! Absolutely!
♪ [singing] ♫
- We call her P.O.W.E.R. and that name
stands for Pissed Old Woman Engaged to the Revolution
- That describes what we feel we're doing.
♪ [singing] ♫
Did you know of the Old Women's Project and their Puppet coming to the rally?
[Everado Magana, Justice for Janitors] I didn't and I think they look great. You know?
Nice, beautiful work.
I've been out in a lot of rallies, where I have seen this big woman puppet
looming above the crowd... strange-fairing to know that, like 40 years
[Carly Delso-Saavedra, Code Pink & Coalition for Peace and Justice] from now I could still be listening them today...
[Virginia Franco, Support Committee for Maquiladora Workers] Without the Old Women's Project,
we would have been forgotten and they never left!
NO DECENT WAGE = HOMELESS OLD AGE
People tend to forget that many old women are still working,
because of their lives of unpaid
and low paid work.
I think that one of the amazing things about the Old Women's Project
is that they act like an old woman. [Lace Watkins, activist San Diego] It's funny,
it's wise, it rocks, it's got gravitas, but it also got levity.
And that's exactly what the movement is.
We would as old women be protesters & it would be a significant factor
within this protest & you would read about
[WOMEN UNITE AGAINST WAR] in the paper the next day, and
it would be the YOUNG people protesting. And we were
invisible! And there was lots of old people!
Women, as well as men,
participating FULLY in all of this.
And were never acknowledged,
they remained completely invisible to the other protesters,
as well as to the media.
And it seemed really important to somehow target
the fact that we were old
and that was important.
- Well, although our cause is clearly, obviously
consciousness raising around ageism. And also,
to get RID of this categorizations of
"I am this kind of person" and
"because I am a good person I will
join the coalition with you and YOUR interests
and you will do the same for me, when
I need help" and instead saying
"we're ALL, we're all involved in each other's issues"!
- For example, there was a huuuge home health care
demonstration in San Diego.
We brought out puppet POWER to the demonstration
and so there it is and we also spoke there.
"Whether as home health care providers or as
health care recipients, all women's lives
depend on stopping THESE
BUDGET CUTS!"
- Old women are both recipients of health care,
which is everybody's perception of us,
but we are also PROVIDERS of home health care.
These connections are there just all the time,
but nobody sees us. - Yeah...
As being part of their issue.
- Childcare is an old woman's issue,
there are old women in their 60s, 70s & older
who are the primary caregivers for their children's
children. Old women are
performing unpaid work in the home, for heavens, yes.
Just over the place. - Yes, yes.
- Not only old women taking care of their great grandchildren,
but they're taking care of other old women, they're taking care of old men...
- Homelessness! Is a major issue
for old women. [WOMEN'S MOBILIZATION FOR LOW COST HOUSING IN SAN DIEGO]
First action organized by the Old Women's Project, March 8th, 2001.
- There are old women who ride
the bus every night to have a safe place to sleep.
[This rally launched the low-cost housing movement in San Diego] And the ranks
of the old women who are homeless are growing every day.
- Old men, you know, if they have social security
- they not only have social security, they generally have more than women
and they often have pensions and so forth - but
lot of old women fit all their lives working inside the homes
for no pay and have no social security
of their own and so when they get the minimum social security,
won't even pay for a single room in San Diego.
- Being old does not protect you
from being raped,
old women are battered by...
spouses, partners, children...
- We are connecting our issues with everybody
else's issues.
"Last night hundreds of women marched around the federal building around down-town
San Diego. And their message support for Iraqi and American women
and against the war. The protest
was organized by the Old Women's Project."
WOMEN WILL NOT BE SILENCED
"Women argue that constable war on Iraq will severely slush funding
the programmes women depend on.
Like health care, low income housing and education.
At one point the rally, enough women have gathered to form
a human chain around the federal building.
The sound of those here that a great number of Americans want to stop war
before it starts. [NO WAR!]
[Rebecca Margolis, anti-war protestor] This is a pivotal point, I believe in our United States history,
where people are saying before a war started "we are the people,
you need to listen to us". ♪ [singing "Give Peace a Chance"] ♫
By the very essence of our group,
were able to reach-out to other old women,
[WOMEN DON'T BUY THIS WAR] to come and join us. "Come down to
the federal building and raise hell about the war". [DOWNTOWN BECOMES DELUGED WITH ANTI-WAR DEMONSTRATORS]
And they come! And they're also making it desirable to be old!
- Yeah!
- Because for example when we invite people to our actions,
we're saying old women are especially welcome,
they are especially... hmm...
encouraged to come, but... uhhh... but women of all ages
are welcomed. [laughs]
Yeah. Right.
So, we create a little bit of...
hierarchy there.
A little plus to be involved.
- We have people say to us "that's a terrible thing, to call a woman old!"
[Feminist author Betty Friedan] I mean... - Yeah! - To call...
To call ourselves old or to call... say that about women.
"Oh, that's just terrible! That's rude!"
I mean, even people who are our supporters,
they can't say that word without an '-er' in the end.
It's always the Older Women's Project. "No, it's the OLD Women's Project!"
"Oh, oh, ok!" They just wanna put 'older' in there
all the time, like if they're insulting us to say
I mean it's like a dirty word, it really is!
- It's also like when old women were called ladies.
Now only old women are called ladies. [laughs]
[lady: a female head of the household, a woman of refinement & gentle manners]
And, and women in sports! [laughs]
But basically, the respect you get, when you know you don't have respect.
When you don't have REAL equality.
When you don't have REAL respect.
It's like when I go to a store with one of my daughters
- and this happens often -
and there will be a young male clerk there,
who will say "well, you two must be sisters!"
[Jan's daughters, Heather & Stacey, with activist Jo Friedman] Well I find that so offensive
and I usually end up getting not...