Decoding the Mind part1
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supposedly
with a high probability, we are carrying
some kind of conditioning or condemning ourselves
Cause, in this way or another society told us we are not good enough
that we need to become somebody
we need to become we need to achieve, we need to reach
there is expectations from us.
We know a life of ambitions and achievements.
Supposedly we are
as a result of that very dependent on , not very - -- some kind of dependency, on confirmation from the other
that we'll get approved from them, a smile, a flatter, a good word, compliment
because, before we know who we are, what we know is
what others think of us, this is our orientaion point to know ourselves
just like you got irritated because, I don't know if it's just towards you but- irritation
from the other, and so because we are
searching for confirmation and for approval,
which is
the root of the unconscious in you that is guilt feeling, is rooted in the unconscious
and so, when we are
socializing or interacting, connecting and so on, we are acting through this pattern
We are
holding back or we are pretending or we are losing our natural flow to share our being
We are on some kind of control
We are protecting a certain image because we want to manipulate the response that will come, that it will be a positive, that we will get the right
compliment, or the right word, cause Osho said that we are
became our ego, makes us the junkyard of other people's opinion about us
and usually we are carrying this guilt trip or this dependency
need for approval and with the flow of life and the pattern we are not stopping to
confront it, to check it, we just act from it
Our energies go into, our intelligence is going on how to manipulate the other so he will give us this or how to disguise ourselves better or
how to control, how to be more cunning, how to maintain the mask that we are wearing
by going inwards, by doing
shift in our attitude towards our self rather than constantly maintaining a certain image or pretension, we are
using the same energy, the same intelligence
to challenge it
to check,
if we are really
dependent on this approval
if, if we are really guilty of something,
rather than reacting from this pattern, rather than carrying this burden
We need to decode it, what is it made of
It's an energy that is there but we don't bother to open it, to dissect it, look at , I told you
There is a process in life
First,
you break , first you destroy it, this is what we are doing here also
look, first in your cycle
we released, emotional, physical toxins, emotional toxins. mentalities first we destroy first we release so there will be space
for the fresh to enter
and we cannot to build our freedom on hope or wish that it, we"ll get lucky we have to understand our minds, to understand it totally
to be present, rather than to be a reactionist
that we have to dictate
to be a presence of freedom
and for this
our observation within us, has to look at every corner of our mind
not one stone should be left unturned
to see what hides under it