Pamela Meyer: How to spot a liar

Okay now... I don't want to... alarm anybody in this room But it has just come to my attention that the person to your right is a liar also the person to your left is a liar also the person sitting in your very seats is a liar we're all liars what I'm gonna do today is: I'm gonna show you what the research says about why we're all liars how you can become a lie spotter and why you might want to go the extra mile and go from lie spotter to truth seeking and ultimately to trust building now, speaking of trust ever since I wrote this book "Lie Spotting" no one wants to meet me in person anymore no...no no no no they say: "it's okay!" "We'll e-mail you." I can't even get a coffee date at Starbucks My husband's like: "honey, deception?" "Maybe you've gotta focus on cooking..." "have a French cooking" so, before we get started what I'm gonna do is: I'm gonna clarify my goal for you which is not to teach a game of "gotcha" lie spotters aren't those nit picky kids